Life can be …

                                                           Life can be…

 Life can be…

Life can be rainbow after rain…

Life can be sunshine after night and sunrise, after all…

Life can be a mirage after a walk spends in the desert…

Life can be a star during a night in the darkness…

Life can be comfort after a cramp 

Life can be a relief after the pain 

Life can be healing after the disease 

Life can be water after the thirst

Life can be food after the hunger 

Life can be a new birth after death. 

Life can be US after HIM/HER.

#girlpower

                                           #Girlspower

The road to emancipation is becoming increasingly compelling for women.
Being a woman is a way to be independent, daily challenge, and great courage to unhinge all the blocks born and built by the mediocrity and avarice of man.
Having a pulse in decisions and sensitivity is a starting point, not indifferent.
Feminism is a movement that is now passed down through generations pushing towards a definitive consecration.
The gentle sex, however emotionally and genetically fragile it may be, has shown us what it is capable of.
For the less democratic and more fundamentalist countries, being born “of the opposite sex” is a penalty from the beginning and indecipherable suffering.
Many argue that the female sex reaches maturity earlier than the male, and the latter cannot lead a satisfying life without it in every respect.
The movement is accelerating more and more and is becoming viral in this period of uncertainty.
To have found a wise and straightforward path is like a great wave to ride.
The future, in my opinion, looks rosy, and sexism will be swept away by a hurricane of creativity and pragmatism.

We are few days from the celebration of 100 years of women’sright to vote approved on August   26, 1920, according to the 19thamendments of the constitution of the United States, which introduced universal suffrage. It was thanks to the triumph of the Suffragettes that the movement for the emancipation of women was born to guarantee at the other sex the right to vote. The suffragettes had met for the first time as a national movement in 1869, but not in the USA, but in the U.K.

Here the battle was won in two stages: the first in 1918 when the British Parliament gave the green light to the right to vote limited to the wives of heads of families with specific age requirements over 30 years. The second 10 years later, on July 2, 1928, when suffrage was extended to all women in the United Kingdom. When in the U.S., the first state to partially recognize female suffrage was Wyoming in 1869. In the same year, in the U.S., movements similar to English movements were born. Suffragetteswomen used to spread their ideas through rallies, written on the walls or signs with slogans such as “votes for women” or content phrases that praised the leader of the movement. Often these demonstrations were suffocated with violence by the police, and the militants were arrested. The struggle was destined for success, which arrived on July 26, 1920. Article 19 of the American Constitution reads as follows. “The right of citizens of the United States to vote shall not be denied or abridged by the United States or by any State on account of sex.”

The wish is not that of a challenge between those who shine more between the sun or moon but of a joint eclipse that makes the sky of life not in darkness but of the high light of passion and common justice.

The risk factor

The risk factor

However, do we want to live this life? Is being lucky enough for us? Or do we want more?
The education proposed to us is undoubtedly that of self-respect, respect for others, and hard work to achieve extraordinary results.
Nevertheless, it is not always enough!
It is about getting involved, traveling, meeting new cultures, different people, and reading enough to be as open-minded as possible.
In these economic and health crises, finding new opportunities is a great goal.
Leaving the comfort zone and facing new adventures is a mentality of those who are not satisfied and want to establish themselves in the highest possible social class.
Earning respect and walking tall is the beginning of real ambition in a world of endless judgments and criticism.
Having a healthy self-awareness and high confidence becomes the foundation for building a great project.
To leave friends, family, and loved ones behind to throw oneself into a new, constructive, and exciting personal journey.
Dreams make life better, and being able to realize them is a great panacea.
Investing in freedom of choice and thought by unhinging prejudices and gratuitous wickedness that bring only sorrows.
Culture is a favorable lever that catapults one’s expectations into tangible ends.
Even doing what we do not like at first may seem absurd, but it is a sign of maturity and then give ourselves 100% on what we want to do.
We exist only in a limited amount of time, and we have to do our best to give ourselves then the luxury of having done it.

Becoming authentic

Becoming authentic

Many people identify and focus their attention on famous and successful people.
The fulfillment and achievement of a project spring up and stirs up fascinating souls of such self-affirmation in society.
The emulation towards the other implies more security and willingness to turn the spotlight in the shortest possible time.
However, is everything right what there showing us?
There is a lot of work and sweat behind every success in life, but in most cases, the appearance risks inserting a trap challenging to interpret.
The projection of ourselves towards others accelerates our personality’s change but leaves a void within us that does not belong to us.
Working on ourselves involves a more significant effort, but only in this way can we become authentic.
Expression in social life unconsciously shows an inevitable part of us.
We need the other to fill our lives, but we need ourselves to make reliable what we want to be.

“Stay mad, but behave like normal people. Run the risk of being different, but learn to do so without attracting attention.” Paulo Coelho

Without rebellion, there is no form of creativity… to put something new to the test by combining genius with unruliness… The virtue of being crazy and different against the boredom of conformism and politically correct…

Fabio Iacobini

The emancipation that wins over Possession

There are certain days so intense that fate or something else decides to play a trick on you and let you live for a few hours what maybe you’ve never seen and felt in your existence.
That day when you feel special and what you do is unique in the same way.
That day when you decide to change yourself and what’s around you…
And maybe it fair that it won’t last forever but only that moment that makes everything more magical…
This, I think, only happens to certain people who seek and eventually find what they have always believed in…
You’ll be remembered for that moment that many people chase for a lifetime.

So, do you want to be a Writer

if it doesn’t come bursting out of you
in spite of everything,
don’t do it.
unless it comes unasked out of your
heart and your mind and your mouth
and your gut,
don’t do it.
if you have to sit for hours
staring at your computer screen
or hunched over your
typewriter
searching for words,
don’t do it.
if you’re doing it for money or
fame,
don’t do it.
if you’re doing it because you want
women in your bed,
don’t do it.
if you have to sit there and
rewrite it again and again,
don’t do it.
if it’s hard work just thinking about doing it,
don’t do it.
if you’re trying to write like somebody
else,
forget about it.
if you have to wait for it to roar out of
you,
then wait patiently.
if it never does roar out of you,
do something else.

if you first have to read it to your wife
or your girlfriend or your boyfriend
or your parents or to anybody at all,
you’re not ready.

don’t be like so many writers,
don’t be like so many thousands of
people who call themselves writers,
don’t be dull and boring and
pretentious, don’t be consumed with self-
love.
the libraries of the world have
yawned themselves to
sleep
over your kind.
don’t add to that.
don’t do it.
unless it comes out of
your soul like a rocket,
unless being still would
drive you to madness or
suicide or murder,
don’t do it.
unless the sun inside you is
burning your gut,
don’t do it.

when it is truly time,
and if you have been chosen,
it will do it by
itself and it will keep on doing it
until you die or it dies in you.

there is no other way.

and there never was.

Charles Bukowski